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Utilizing Safe Spaces in Your Home for Small Children

My #1 necessity / mommy saver / mom hack are the use of:

SAFE SPACES!

What is better than a safe space?!! NOTHING is better than a safe space!!!! A safe space is an enclosed area where kids are free to roam and do whatever they like with no safety hazards and plenty of room to do what kids do best - play. Our best safe space in our home is our living room, which we have donated to the kids. The kids can be kids and play and run around and touch anything they want without hearing a “NO” or tripping and hurting themselves on a coffee table. It’s a contained area with a wide gate that kind of makes it seem like they are in jail….but they are not in jail. They are in a fun and safe environment that they both enjoy and that promotes independence. AND it lets mommy enjoy some space and time to do mommy things without the interruption of one toddler holding onto each of my legs as I try to walk.

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Here’s a fun idea- a safe space for toddler eating time! We donated a corner of our dining room for their eating space, with toddler tables and chairs, and a matt underneath to catch all those crumbs. You won’t find anything with sharp corners here! And our adult dining table is round so that makes for no worrying about eyes bumping into table corners.

I’ve made it easy for them to help themselves to however much food they want. I find that they eat more this way and it gives them a sense of independence which is EVERYTHING to a 2 and 3 year old. Oh and afterwards they put their dirty dishes in the dishwasher too, and Valentino has even begun to vacuum the crumbs with a little hand held vacuum cleaner. I can’t handle the cuteness.

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Another safe space area: THE BEDROOM. All our kids rooms are gated and fully toddler safety proof. I’ve lately been really into the KonMari method and have been on a major purging and organizing kick. I’ve gotten rid of most all clutter and find it so satisfying to be able to walk into my toddler’s rooms without constantly tripping on toys. I put minimal furniture in each of their rooms too- only the absolute necesseties, and also replaced curtains with valances so they won’t be able to pull them down. I find that the more “stuff” is in their rooms, the more prone to injury they are and the less safe it is. They do still have a lot of toys but I put them in bins and we have a rotating bin system that keeps them loving their “new” old toys that I rotate out.

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The more kids I have, the more I realize how necessary these spaces are for my kids. Like how else would I be able to feed a baby away from the loud screaming toddlers? I cannot leave any kid fully unattended, however safe the “safe space” may be, so we made sure to install cameras in all our kid safe space areas. This way I can keep an eye on them playing in the living room while I’m upstairs feeding the baby. Or I can peek and make sure they are actually sleeping when it’s nap time or bed time.

So my house isn’t fancy and we don’t have many expensive and nice things, but when having kids this small I feel this system we have is just perfect and functional for everyone.

About: Leila Rahmanian and Salar Rahmanian

Leila Rahmanian is married to Salar Rahmanian. They live in the San Francisco Bay Area and have three wonderful kids, two boys named Valentino Rahmanian and Caspian Rahmanian and a beautiful daughter named Persephone Rahmanian.