/ #family #holidays 

Happy New Year 2017

toddler_new_year_party

Happy New Year everyone! I don’t know about you, but I am so relieved to say goodbye to 2016. It was such an unbelievable year! Everything after June (when I found out I was expecting) has been a blur!

Here’s a recap of my crazy year…..

January 2016 through May 2016 was fantastic! I felt great, the kids were doing great, hubby was doing great. We both looked thin and fantastic due to our miracle Keto diet, and so we took out our old boxes of clothes from our pre-baby days and tried everything on, and were so surprised to fit into everything!!!! We then stored all our old L and XL clothes into the buckets and sent them to the basement thinking we would never see them again.

Then on Father’s Day we found out we were expecting! That was a REALLY big and wonderful surprise!!! We knew we always wanted a third child, but the timing of this completely caught us off guard. We were overjoyed and super excited about this miracle baby, who was determined to make its way into the world!

Shortly after finding out, I was struck down with intense bouts of morning sickness that lasted a good 4 months. The entire summer of 2016 was a complete blur. I cannot even explain to you how bad it was. It was like going through 4 months of feeling like you have food poisoning, or having the worst hangover of your life. Multiple times a week I would have to pull the car over and vomit on the side of the road. It was super embarrasing. We had a live in nanny for about a month to help out, but that was short lived. To say my pregnancies are difficult is putting it very lightly.

Also during late summer we moved house. That was right when Caspian started school, and right when I caught a bug that left me with a cough that lasted two months and I was constantly gagging and vomiting during our entire move. I was utterly miserable.

Then around October and November 2016, something crazy happened to me! My pharmacy gave me the wrong pills in the correct prescription bottle. The wrong pills were mixed in with some of the correct pills, and they all looked the same, so I took them for the entire month until I had a few left and realized I was taking something that I wasn’t supposed to. Then I discovered that the pills I was taking should not be taken by pregnant women as they CAUSE BIRTH DEFECTS. I immediately went to the doctors who informed me that due to that mistake my thyroid levels were dangerously off. Thanks a lot pharmacy!

Because of that whole pill fiasco, during the months of November and December 2016, I had to constantly go see different doctors, write letters to multiple healthcare professionals, be tested a million times and it seemed like every few days I had a medical appointment.

And while all this was happening, everyone was flipping their $h!t about the presidential elections and all these celebrities dying. Because I was going through something so traumatic and irritating, I couldn’t empathize with anyone who was badly effected by the outcome of the elections and the dying celebrities. I really couldn’t understand why people were making out to be the end of the world. To cry because your favorite singer died or because your favorite candidate didn’t win seemed absurd to me. Is it insensitive of me to want to yell out to the world: “GET OVER IT?” Ok, maybe that’s a tad bit insensitive. I will attempt to exercise more empathy.

On a more positive note, Caspian started school in September 2016 and has really taken to it. He’s in Valentino’s class, and big brother looks after him :) The kids have been doing so great. Valentino has turned 3 and Caspian has turned 2 in December. They play so well together and I couldn’t have asked for better kids. They eat well, sleep well, and are just overall well adjusted happy kids. Hubby takes them to school in the mornings so that I can sleep in, as the pelvic and sciatic pains keep me up all night.

toddler_backpack

toddler_montessori_School

There have also been a few other things that happened this year that I am not at liberty to discuss yet, and that have impacted our lives, in the not-so-greatest of ways. We are still dealing with those things and maybe one day I’ll divulge, but for now I just can’t.

We ended 2016 with the whole family being sick and a trip to the emergency room for me. I wasn’t able to breathe through my nose at all for four days and then on the fifth day I couldn’t even breathe from my mouth as it would cause me to gag and vomit. At nights I wouldn’t be able to sleep, and would sit in a hot shower multiple times in the middle of the night so that I could breathe (I didn’t sleep for 5 nights in a row!). Then when I did manage to sleep for a few minutes I would wake up suddenly gasping for air due to choking on heartburn. Oh the joys of pregnancy!

So here’s to 2017. You better have something REALLY good in store for me. I’ll just be here, waiting patiently :-)

new_years_eve_martinelli

About: Leila Rahmanian and Salar Rahmanian

Leila Rahmanian is married to Salar Rahmanian. They live in the San Francisco Bay Area and have three wonderful kids, two boys named Valentino Rahmanian and Caspian Rahmanian and a beautiful daughter named Persephone Rahmanian.